She doesn't believe it...for whatever reason. It's her job to find out within herself WHY she doesn't believe you...unfortunately she's not doing that, she's just reacting. She's gotta figure that out, and the rest of her shit...regardless... you agreeing even though you know things are COMPLETELY wrong doesn't help your believability because she knows you think otherwise...as shown by her saying you don't mean the things you say or do (which, is true unfortunately when you agree just to agree instead of meaning it). But, she's also unfairly generalizing.Thanks for the advice CC. *Sad to tell you that I've already given that a try. *Have tried to do more things that she suggests, going on trips together, going to watch movies she wants, I make sure to have breakfast ready for her and my lil boy before they wake up (and it's damn good! ), forced myself to agree with things she says that I know are COMPLETELY WRONG, etc. *And even with all that, she questions when I tell her that I love her, she says that I don't mean the things I say or DO. *I've told her that if I didn't love her I could have just dumped her when I found out she cheated, but instead am here working my a$$ off at trying to fix things and trying to make HER happy... she still discredits me. *Lack of common sense and social IQ?
I wish an "I Love You" could warm up her heart and make things better, but it doesn't... an "I Love You" is answered with a "Why? *You're just infatuated". *WTF?
Sorry for the :hijack:. *Kind of :deadhorse: when it comes to my relationship. *I'm in the same situation as danieljardim... it's all for my boy.
And no, our conflicts don't interfere with our son, we're civil about it and act kind of like friends with 0 affection towards each other and we don't even fight anymore since we don't care much for one another, but we both give all our love to our lil man.