Just a reminder...3 more days till the end of the world


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PhatPhizzixxer

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Sparkxx1 said:
not at all Laurie! My parents have power issues too, I guess just not as bad?

It's also hard when half the time they're saying I love you, but the other half they're putting me down and calling me just those names you wrote down. I won't go into detail because it's just too long. Both my parents have control issues and there is nothing I can do about it.

This one time we were all having an argument, but I really needed to just take a walk to vent. I apparently wasn't allowed to be mad, but I couldn't leave either. They ended up locking all the doors against me. Mind you I'm 18 and just needed a walk. So what did I do? I ended up just jumping out of the second floor window. Thankfully from that moment on they've given me a bit more space, but only because I forced them to. How do you tell a person from childhood not to have certain emotions? How do you put down a straight edge kid with straight A grades, and tell him he's useless all the time? How do you limit a child's creativity, why...?

Please take care of those children! The world needs more love in it. :) I'm always making a mental list of what I approve of and what I don't approve of for the time when I have kids.
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Wow...I really feel your frustration! I've been in your shoes, believe me...family issues can be so mind-numbingly frustrating & hurtful. But your time will come...you've got a great bike to help you release all that stuff and friends here who care. My son is older than you, is out on his own, has a GXR and we go for rides together when we can...we have headsets and while we're riding, we chatter almost non-stop and laugh & laugh & laugh about stuff...so much FUN and the laughter releases so much built-up tension! So...hang in there, Buddy! :)
 
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Marthy

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Sparkxx1 said:
not at all Laurie! My parents have power issues too, I guess just not as bad?

It's also hard when half the time they're saying I love you, but the other half they're putting me down and calling me just those names you wrote down. I won't go into detail because it's just too long. Both my parents have control issues and there is nothing I can do about it.

This one time we were all having an argument, but I really needed to just take a walk to vent. I apparently wasn't allowed to be mad, but I couldn't leave either. They ended up locking all the doors against me. Mind you I'm 18 and just needed a walk. So what did I do? I ended up just jumping out of the second floor window. Thankfully from that moment on they've given me a bit more space, but only because I forced them to. How do you tell a person from childhood not to have certain emotions? How do you put down a straight edge kid with straight A grades, and tell him he's useless all the time? How do you limit a child's creativity, why...?

Please take care of those children! The world needs more love in it. :) I'm always making a mental list of what I approve of and what I don't approve of for the time when I have kids.
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I had issues with my Mom growing up too. Kind of trying to slow me down.... "every good reason to put stick in your wheels" Since I move out at 23 yo or so things got better. Now I see my Mom every 1 to 1 1/2 year. We call each other every other months and I got married twice and she wasn't there. So next time an issue come along with your parents stay calm. Silence is powerfull my friend! Look at them straith in the eyes and say that:

"You know what... you can try to slow me down, micro-manage me and pissing me off as much as you want while you still can. But one day I will go on my own and I will remember those days... with some luck, I might send you a christmas card once a year from 2000 miles away if thing keep going like that." (Stay polite but firm)

The good thing is you know the difference between right and wrong. Everybody at least know 1 person that is totally screw up in there head... this is when you ask yourself "Wonder what there parents did wrong" That will make you a better and stronger person. Most important... a better Dad when time comes.
 
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CDN6R

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Good advice there Martin,,however somepeople who have abusive parents turn out to be absuive themselves but not all. When you are abused,you have 2 places that you can go,,Positive or Negative. I promised myself to try and stay +ve as much as I can for my own sanity and my future kids. Now I am not perfect (just ask my kids) but I give them love and as much support as I can in what ever they want to do. I see that you Martin are they same way and for that I tip my hat to you for stepping up here on the Forum to help everyone here as much as you can with good advice, and a good sence of humor.:thumbup: Keep it up my friend,,your future kids will have a great Dad. (now is my soul woth more than $5.00? LOL)
 
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Marthy

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Wonder who's her daddy?
 
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PhatPhizzixxer

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Wow! Where's my old cheerleading uniform?!:steve:
 
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redprodigy35

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99vengeur

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redprodigy35 said:
That is... Out of control... I don't even know how to react.
I think I held my breath the whole time reading the FAQ's.
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I think I was laughing the whole time I was reading the FAQ's! :D
 
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BrueThru

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Best FAQ I've read in a long time. :rof:

I love practicality. "Naturally, we must anticipate that there will be widespread chaos and confusion immediately following the Rapture that could impact travel times."

God bless the atheists. :D
 
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Marthy

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16 minutes past the hours... Crap! What I did wrong again??? Ah well, life goes on! Maybe the calculation were wrong again... We will have an other shot next year... Wankers!
 
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CrazyCawi

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Well...Im still here...Hope the rest of you are too...this forum will be boring without you all.... :(
 
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BrueThru

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Well we do live on a big "ROCK" toof. Only stands to reason.

Guess we have to wait till December 2012.

It looks like Yamaha will get the last payment after all, damn it! :D
 

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See red

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Sadly I died in the rapture..... but then I was not dead.... so now I am a mushroom. Kept in the dark fed a bunch of bull sh!+ and expected to grow.



I think my wife was the root cause of the failure, she always gets the blame for stupid stuff, I get the big ones
 
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