cbzdel
New Member
Here is a question for everyone.. Me and the Fiance have been planning a wedding.. We wanted something small and simple, pretty much family only. We knew for our honeymoon we were taking a cruise to Alaska which we have both wanted to do.
Wait, lets just get married on the cruise and save on the cost of the wedding! Smart idea huh, thats what we decide on.. We go tell me whole side of the family and they love it, they are excited and ready to go!
We go tell her family and her parents say this "That is the stupidest idea I have ever heard" I ask why, as the lady is about to cry! They say its not practical. I say we are not made of money so we are combining a few things. They say bull $hit we offered to help pay. I said I didnt want their money and we want to do things our way and I would appropriate them understanding. They then say if you dont get married in their family church (the church their family has attending for 100+ years) then we are not attending.
So now the lady runs out of the place in tears. We talk, we dont know what to do.. Neither of us want a traditional church wedding, but we want her family to attend...
Any advice guys?? This is putting alot of stress on the both of us, we plan everything out for OUR wedding and people still complain about being invited..
Wait, lets just get married on the cruise and save on the cost of the wedding! Smart idea huh, thats what we decide on.. We go tell me whole side of the family and they love it, they are excited and ready to go!
We go tell her family and her parents say this "That is the stupidest idea I have ever heard" I ask why, as the lady is about to cry! They say its not practical. I say we are not made of money so we are combining a few things. They say bull $hit we offered to help pay. I said I didnt want their money and we want to do things our way and I would appropriate them understanding. They then say if you dont get married in their family church (the church their family has attending for 100+ years) then we are not attending.
So now the lady runs out of the place in tears. We talk, we dont know what to do.. Neither of us want a traditional church wedding, but we want her family to attend...
Any advice guys?? This is putting alot of stress on the both of us, we plan everything out for OUR wedding and people still complain about being invited..